Recommended Reading

Relationships:

Getting the Love You Want by Harville Hendricks
Keeping the Love You Find by Harville Hendricks
Receiving Love by Harville Hendricks
The Seven Principles For Making Marriage Work by John Gottman and Nan Silver
Why Marriages Succeed or Fail by John Gottman
10 Lessons to Transform Your Marriage by John Gottman and Julie Schwartz Gottman
What Makes Love Last by John Gottman and Nan Silver
The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman
How to Improve Your Marriage Without Talking About It by Pat Love
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson
The Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans
Financial Infidelity by Bonnie Eaker Weil
The Dance of Intimacy by Harriet Lerner
The Dance of Anger by Harriet Lerner

Addiction:

It Couldn’t Happen To Me by Claudia Black
Drinking: A Love Story by Caroline Knapp
Co-Dependent No More by Melody Beattie

Affairs:

After The Affair: Healing the Pain and Rebuilding Trust When a Partner Has Been Unfaithful by Janis Abrahms
Getting Past The Affair by Snyder, Baulcom, and Gordon
Not Just Friends by Shirley Glass
Back From Betrayal by Suzy Farbman
How Can I Forgive You by Janis Abrahms Spring
Forgiving The Unforgivable by Beverly Flanigan
Adultery, The Forgivable Sin by Bonnie Eaker Weil
Can We Cure and Forgive Infidelity by Bonnie Eaker Weil
Make Up, Don’t Brake Up by Bonnie Eaker Weil
Divorce Remedy by Michelle Weiner Davis
Staying Together When An Affair Pulls You Apart by Steve Judah
Private Lies by Frank Pittman
Shattered Vows by Debra Laaser
Torn Asunder: Recovering From An Extramarital Affair by Dave Carder
Surviving Infidelity by Subotnik and Harris
Affairs: Getting The Message by Emily Brown
Sex, Lies, and Forgiveness by Schneider
Financial Infidelity by Bonnie Eaker Weil
Recovering From Affairs by Peggy Vaughan
Online Affairs by Peggy Vaughan
Making Love Last by Peggy Vaughan
Beyond Affairs: The Vaughan’s Story by Peggy Vaughan

Affair Proofing:

To Have and To Hold: A Personal Handbook for Building a Strong Marriage and Preventing Affairs by Peggy Vaughan
His Needs, Her Needs: Building An Affair Proof Marriage by Willard Harley and Wayne Shepherd
Emotional Infidelity: How to Affair Proof Your Marriage and 10 Other Secrets to a Great Relationship by Gary Neuman

Anxiety:

The Anxiety and Phobia Workbook by Edward Bourne
The New Mood Therapy by David Burns
When Panic Attacks by David Burns
Anxiety Gone: The Three C’s of Anxiety Recovery by Stan Hibbs

Decision Points:

Too Good to Leave, Too Bad to Stay by Mira Kirshenbaum
I Love You, But I Don’t Trust You by Mira Kirshenbaum

Depression:

Feeling Good by David Burns
The Feeling Good Handbook by David Burns
I Don’t Want to Talk About It: Overcoming the Secret Legacy of Male Depression by Terrence Real

Divorce:

Divorce Busting by Michelle Weiner Davis
Rebuilding When Your Relationship Ends by Bruce Fisher and Robert Alberti
Coming Apart: Why Relationships End and How to Live Through The Ending of Yours by Daphne Rose Kingma
Spiritual Divorce by Debbie Ford
Crazy Time by Abigail Trafford
Uncoupling by Diane Vaughn
Who Am I Without My Partner: Post Divorce Healing and Rediscovering Yourself by Deborah Potashnik Hecker

Parenting:

Parenting From the Inside Out by Daniel Siegal and Mary Hartzell
1, 2, 3 Magic: Effective Discipline for Children 2-12 by Thomas Phelan
Scream Free Parenting by Hal Runkel
The Blessings of a Skinned Knee by Wendy Mogel
The Explosive Child by Ross Greene
Raising Your Spirited Child by Mary Sheedy Kurchinka
Get Out of My Life: But First Take Me and Cheryl To the Mall by Anthony Wolf